Friday, November 23, 2007

The Day of Thanks

Thanks Giving Day is a great day. It doesn't have political or religious content and so it is celebrated universally by people of every culture. I've noticed this since becoming a school teacher. Kids who come from all the groups of people who've moved to the United States celebrate Thanksgiving the way everyone in the country celebrates: having a big meal with their extended family. The food choices often include turkey, etc. but they also incorporate the foods of their heritage: tamales, sticky rice, curry, pineapple cake.


I celebrated with my extended family and, as we went around the table, enumerating our blessings, my brother-in-law stated his thanks that our sister lived there in our home town still and was a willing hostess. Since we became orphans last year with the death of our mother, it has seemed weird and disconnected to celebrate holidays. So I, too, am grateful for my sister and her husband's big house and fun-loving spirits to invite all comers from our large family. We had a really good time and it was a small step towards maintaining family ties in the wake of the loss of our center.

1 comment:

Mary said...

If you haven't already seen it, watch the movie "What's Cooking". It follows Thanksgiving day in 4 households, 4 cultures, 4 different food traditions.. and how these people's lives intertwine. By the same director who did "Bend It Like Beckham" and "Bride and Prejudice". For us, it's like a "Wonderful Life" for Thanksgiving.